i got his attention by doing something really bad ass, he was all up on me after that but i ignored all of his invitations, hehe. He doesn't want to go fast at all, no matter what kind of signals he may accidentally be sending. However, over the coming months we chatted. I am addressing that and we had a while where only 1 argument and I didn't run, he talked me out of it. He could do what he wanted but when it came to me it was so different. The only reason we did have a conversation via text is because I contacted him but other than that I haven't heard anything. He told me he's stressed out due to some things & avoiding talking to everyone. Be a mystery and he'll stop worrying about relationships and commitments and go back to picking at your brain and looking at you with his head tilted. he was using all kinda of excuses for not getting involved yet he continued coming to see me at work texting etc its now been three months. In a relationship, Venus and Jupiter will create a euphoric atmosphere for you until the 16th. If youd like, you can learn more about me on this page here. I was dealing w/ this for MONTHS. Cause i was holding on 2 hope 4 us when he was doing him. when i asked what he'd been up to, it was always 'busy with friends.' So why does an Aquarius man pull away when in love? He's on my Facebook and I have sent him messages first to talk to him and just recently I sent him a message saying I want a relationship and no friend thing if he's not ok with that to delete me off his Facebook ..well he hasn't deleted me but hes still on with ignoring my messages. As soon as they start their distancing act just turn the tables and do a disappearing act - and mean it. its all good and fair. Hi everyone! I remind him were both single we both care for each other I'm falling in love with him again & we won't say the love word or relationship the closer we become he freaks will desapear no more than a week out of nowhere will text like nothing happens. do i back off as well? I'm a scorpio. I too have met an Aquarius, 2 months, and find the lack of verbal communication insipid and ennui has set in for me. And you are so right. If you This experience is already knocking my confidence. He took a break about 2 months ago after a few fights where I felt were unresolved so I threatened in heat of argument to leave. A relationship with an Aquarius man can be exhausting or difficult sometimes but at the end of the day, hes still a human being. We finally started going on dates and having sex (magical!!).. CONT..I may SEEM strong, but this has taken me months to get to this point. Ha! He's divorced Twice you once you reunited after all that time that's past still have feeling for each other. I want someone who makes me feel good (we all deserve that don't we?) Unparalled patience will be required if you really want to proceed. But before you go all crazy at him, you need to know that there are different levels of emotional thresholds. and he seems ok with that it makes me feel im nothing! I miss him a lot when he disappears but I never tell him. He might get hurt when they feel ignored by you. We have been courting eachothers values truly, and haven't even slept together, I am almost 40 and he 49, I want to wait until I know who my life partner is going to be, and he has respected that, neither of us have been married. I miss him for many reasons, but at the same time, i gave him the skin off my back and he dissapears because i broke? I was under the impression that we were fine. WTH? Terms and conditions | Privacy policy | About | Contact. It doesnt matter the gender because the Aquarius sign is extremely intellectual. How accurate is it? 20 Subtle Ways To Make Him Feel It. So, if he figures out that he cant dedicate enough time to them, hell sacrifice you and your relationship and hell start pulling away. People often say distance makes the heart grow fonder and thats actually true. Also, giving him space and time to analyze his feelings is a must. I said: We do get lovey dovey, when we're being intimate duh. He has brown eyes and black hair. We had the most magical kiss at the end of the night and agreed to see each other again. After our second date he told me he wanted to see me the day after but he might have to leave town so he was going to call me to let me know. and after about 4days he said hes sorry, and we talked on the phone he said no other girl cus he just get interested in a girl at his friend cafe but he said yesterday he found out that this girl has a bf, so he felt stupid and oh yes i was so emotional and i said NO! I get that you feel like your world is falling apart because your Aquarius man is pulling away when in love and you obviously want to know whats going through his mind. Another thing we asked ourselves was: what would cause an Aquarius man to disappear? 2 weeks prior to this I showed him a letter telling him he was growing on me. They will send txt's to you one minute saying how he can't wait to see you and the next he pulls a dissapearing act while he's dating others. Sorry but they will cheat they will do whatever to make things good 4 them including cheating ( aquarius man). He's accepted it many times that i've been a great friend & he appreciates how i've always been there. I have sent something similar b4 (just after my last posting) when I simply asked to meet up with him but also asked him to let me know if he did not want to take things any further which created a turning point as he did want to meet and rather than him blowing me out we got together a few times and everything seemed wonderful up until last week! I've told him we need to have a one-on-one talk before we get serious with one another because there are some things, like I've mentioned here, I won't tolerate. . He suddenly became distant and different annoying things like texxing and then disappear in the middle of the conversation. And that can be very hurtful and painful. I felt bad but managed to bounce back and there was no awkwardness. We're very spontaneous, We tend and service to anyone who needs our help and love. I'm tryin so hard fr this to wrk but I'm still confused wht's goin on in his head, whether he is jst using me, or he aint sure abt me that's y he keeps spacin out, or that he likes me but is still lookin fr someone else??? Welcome to my blog about the Aries man. An Aquarius man can be a great partner, but there are signs he might be using you. WTF?! Well, an Aquarius man is very protective of his woman and he doesnt like seeing other guys around her, so if youre trying to rekindle a romance with him, the best way youll do that is by casually flirting with someone else. But as time went on it got worse. Aquarians need their alone time to recharge, to think things through, to work on their ideas and to soothe their overthinking / over-analysing. im thinking maybe he just wanted a fling cuz he knew i was married and now that he knows ill be getting divored e freaked? I have never had a man treat me like Im no big deal before - yet Im curiously drawn to him. I've decided that I am not going to text him at all anymore, and if he wants to be with me, then he's going to have to step up to the plate because this Aries is done playing these ridiculous cat n' mouse games! But, he wants me to be his best friend. Is he distracted and just wants some 'space', like they do, or was his behaviour the last time we met his way of telling me he doesn't want to know? Ugh, I am baffled and sometimes want to give up! An Aquarius man isnt the kind of guy wholl chase you again and again. He was talking up the future, and then 2 months later he was gone. I kinda hope he dosent. I somehow take more time to get over a lost friendship than a lost relationship. my first love (aqua) has come back into my life. Instead, he will do what he wants, without thinking about how it makes you feel. But the typical Aqua IS. Only to just turn it off. (( I think it's one of those stupid contradictions us Aquariuses are known for)) If you're Aquariuses is being very romantic, rushing along, don't just assume that he is ready for a relationship! I will get bored and feel unloved and move on with a quickness and not look back. This is creepy but I didn't mind because it was him. We had talked and I thought everything was fine. Move on or because if not, he can continue this non-chalant relationship going for decades. We have been casually together over a year now. It's never too late to begin again. I appreciate your honesty and now I have a beter understanding of aquarius male. You wont get him back if he sees you being vulnerable or helpless. I am a Leo, so I will lick my wounds in private, him never knowing that he has put a stain on my heart and I will move on.:(. I have made mistakes according to this article - like saying I miss him, asking to see him, expecting normal behavior, lol. Im at lost of words, do kno wat to do. How does it work? At first, he may give you the silent treatment as a warning to see whether or not youll get the point. He didn't respond. I have been accused of things, constantly, like I have to reassure him I am not cheating or even thinking about cheating, we have had terrible arguments about this and it stems from his past relationships. Terms and conditions | Privacy policy | About | Contact, Definitely a perfect description of what i am going through with my Friend/boyfriend who knows Aquarius. The funny thing is I feel I got more consistent attention from this guy b4 we started dating (they do say they make better friends than lovers) and I do truly believe we will always be very good friends if nothing else. Im not trying to discourage you from continuing your relationship but seriously seriously consider what I have written. Can you tell me why he must be behaving like this?Please can you tell me what should i do & how should i go bout it? With guys ike these, u just gotta leave them alone. He stopped responding to me and when I asked him about it, he came up with an excuse and said he wasn't ignoring me. i tottally confuse with my ex aquarius! I wish I would have read this article a long time ago. Oh, you are so right. He has to know that other men find you attractive as well and that he needs to step up his game if he still wants to be in a relationship with you. And you know what, he went bezerk . begging to talk to me, begging to see me, trying to entice me anyway he could, even making up stupid reasons for wanting to contact me, like he saw these curtains that would look great in my mother's house. WebHeres how to deal with an Aquarius man who is distancing himself from you: Stay calm and collected Give him some space before contacting him again Refocus his attention on enjoying your company Stay positive around him Prove to him that youre not trying to take away his freedom Theres nothing better than knowing youre a better person today than you were yesterday. An Aquarius man pulls away when in love. He may mean well but don't talk about if it you're not about it. Your stomach will always tell you what is wrong and what is not. At the time, I didn't either. By understanding someone and how they view things it's easy to make yourself more attractive to them. I should have known better but, he has disappeared on me again- doh! It was about him,the kids, his family, friends, his baby mama drama & I came LAST! Maybe the first or 2nd time, but it really is a sign of immaturity no matter how old they are. Playing the same game with a 50 year old Aquairus who act like a little lost boyHe found me searched me out said I was his soul mate wanted to maary me, moved me back to Califonia, and 3 month after we moved back he lost his son, and said he needed time away which i gave him he moved out and comes and goes when he pleases , comes to do his laundry takes me to the beach make love and than poof i don hear from him for a weekWhen I just show up at his hide out he says I am freaking out and do it to myself. He doesnt want a woman whos affectionate all the time, as too much attention or tenderness will scare him off. Thank you Anna! It's strange. and then he never called me again but he still send msg on fb =.= i still love him, what should i do to handle him? For me, at least, it is just having fun, just interacting. However, he doesnt do it on purpose. DETROIT Police are searching for a Detroit man who failed to return home. An Aquarius man makes a great companion and romantic partner. Learn more. Shutterstock For the love of the stars above, Aquarius give yourself a break. You can share 5 more gift articles this month.. For me, as a very strong-minded Aries woman, it started off as a challenge for me to see if I could actually follow another person and allow him to be mostly "in charge". On the third date we became intimate and on the last date (which was last week) it was like he doesn't want to know. I just let him. For me, once I say I love someone, I will make the utmost effort to carry through and hang in through good and bad. Thanks so much I and to you too Viking! then he may never. Join in and write your own page! I don't have to say anything to my aquarius to tell him how I feel, it's like we can read each other's minds. In fact, I'm a bit obsessed with him. About 2 months ago he started referring to me as his girlfriend. Ever time he tried to prove i was cheating guess what it blew up in his face. I waited an hour and 15 minutes, and where I park you can't see my car when you drive in, so he didn't know I was there, so he drives up, and I had just put a short note in his door, and I get out to get the note because I figured we would talk so why leave it, well right behind him was his new "girlfriend!!" I can tell you one thing: an Aquarius is quite a handful. It's never too late to begin again. If I thought I had room I would share the texts between him and I from those 2 days. I emailed him etc all the things I shouldn't have done but gave it a NC after and messaged him on fb and it was all ok again. When I told him what hurt he caused me 10 years ago and the effect it had on my subsequent relationships, he said 'Ive made him want to kill hims self', and if anyone hurts me he cares deeply and wants to annihilate any threat to me. Oh the anguish he has caused my heart, I need to get of this roller coaster ride as he is driving, and I am emotionally exposed (very uncomfortable for me). Its the best way for you to start connecting with him by speaking his language. Then he has to recharge his power source by taking time off alone. )The best way, again this is just my experience and I've known other things to work at different times, you just have to try you're best to read the situation, is to remind the Aquarius why he picked you in the first place. Making him jealous can even instead help you to move on (if thats what you want) or it can give you a fresh perspective on what youll have to fix if you do end up being together again. However, just like Virgo, Libra, or Sagittarius, an Aquarian guy also has some dark traits, and being emotionally detached and distant are two of them. Im too old for this! If he said something he meant it and sometimes I wonder if the aqua is just full of bs!! His time is precious. I did my best to not react to his little dissapearing acts. Good luck,gf, and try not to get too frustrated with him, and just go about your business, and what happens, happens! An Aquarius man who feels comfortable asserting his independence will be reassured that you care I will say this though, that one of the many things I DO like about an Aquarius is how they are clingy and super needy, and for me this a huge plus, but then that "super detachment" thing they do comes into play, and you have to decide just how much of this you can take because it's tough to not get any, if much, feedback on how they feel about youlife must go on!! It's really cool. He pulls these stupid vanishing acts and then calls me and wants to cuddle and make love. we were friends then intimacy started, Sex was unbelievable. But scared to be open with him cos I know I'm on borrowed time which feels unsettling. A lot of people even asked if we were dating each other. now that i look back we've been "dating" for 9 months, taking it ridiculously slow, barely starting to get to know each other. But when the person I am spacing from starts to cling to me because of the break, I get worried. SAPD looking for 29-year-old man missing for nearly a month. So I did a disappearing act on him. He disappears for long periods of time and gives you no explanation. He was very controlling person, set in his ways, i couldn't wear this, calling me all the time thinking i was doing wrong. I am ready to end this life long friendship because I feel like I am being played??? I mean there was no loyalty 4 me in this relationship. It's the most powerful tool I've found to predict the future of a relationship. Has anyone had a similar experience with a break up with an Aquarian man? This is what I told her to do! I mean who does that to someone? (Though, quick side note. I am baffled about him. Questioning myself, going over all the times we were together trying to figure out if he was sincere in those moments, wondering why he is not calling. hes quite a bit younger thn me but ive dated men younger. Sometimes he enthusiastically talks to me, and I can feel that he likes me, especially since he is so comfortable to send me those naughty texts. In relationships, they study the little things you do and connect it on a grander scale. Our vision is to become a supportive community where youll feel that theres someone out there who gets you, supports you in creating and keeping strong bonds between your families and friends. Don't know what to expect I really want him but feel like he's wasting my time I shoul just leave him forever & just grieve him away already. He is supposed to come to a wedding with me this weekend and the day he texted me, he said not to invite a girlfriend, I would hear from him by end of week before wedding. Thank you! Explore hidden factors such as physical attraction so you can see the whole picture of your relationship. How the hell can I have a relationship with someone who always has his sprinting shoes on, & eying the door, if I unbalance his correct amount of romance/love/affection that makes him feel 'free'? They will date other women while they date you and you won't even know. There is always talk of marriage, putting a ring on my finger (even how many carats), taking me on trips, the whole nine yards, but nothing has come of it, haven't seen jack and I'm okay with thisjust that I sense a lot of talk but not a doer in that aspect so I take everything he says with a grain of salt and not rely heavily on the "good" talk because I know it's just talk, but that mess has got to stop, I hate bs. He talked about the future and made plans for us. He also pours it out, in the same way received, on the next person and everyone close to him. I love this man more than love could love itself. I am recently starting to treat him the same way he treats me but it doesn't seem to phase him one bit. My aquarius ex boyfriend is being hot and cold with me. And you wanna get as far away from them as you can. I was seeing an aquarius man. and now He is cold and distant. Many thanks and good luck to you all. WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT? I have been with an aquarious for 6 years. That cant keep happening. Simply because we dont like to hurt people and if we feel like you're going to be hurt in the proccess of our relationship because you can't handle our life hectic life. He has now moved to London and we met for a date. Right now he is asking me to hang in there with him, he loves me more than I can imagine, but how about showing it it like he did in the beginning bent over backwards to get me, do it to keep me. I guess this is how people feel about me haha! I noticed a lot of questions were asking about why their Aquarius men are disappearing or doing 180's in the personality department. Trust me, he has others. If an Aquarius gives his word, he will make sure he fulfills it. I finally asked if I was going to see him again when he got back into town and his response was "of course!!! tricky i know since sex is a big part of this awesomeness. I've bern with my Aqua guy on and off for 4 yearswe leave together now but he decided he wants to move out. It was a miscommunication, he took a break again. The sex was the bomb! Thanks so much for your comments can't tell you enough how much I appreciate it. Ive been dating this gorgeous guy for 9 months, we hit it off straight away, met each others kids and he recently met my parents. i don't know what will happen now i adore him and everything is really intense just how i like it. When youorder myAquarius Man Secrets program here, as a free bonus you can get in touch with me directly, and Ill advise you on your unique situation personally. he also kissed me . When he should be the one saying he loves me? My aquarius ex stopped contacting me on 21/9/13- he texts me on 01/11/13 saying hi- I left it 3 hours and just replied saying hello- I have had nothing again- shall I just forget and move on. We have been intimate this last year and we still remained close. Lol! He has a lot of people wanting his time. He knows i dont struggle to meet men, but i do not behave vein, i always dress well and beautify but i keep natural.. i have a lot going for me, i drive a nice car and career and house is in top rank, so perhaps he thinks i may be of use but then he appears a bit nervous as he did at the start like he has no confidence around me but im certainly not a great lover of boys.. Any aquariuses that can shed some light would be apprecisated buti cannot say id be interested in going on but believe me, i wont chase the man or entertain his rubbish.. phones can be hung up quickly in a decent manner and abrupt conversations can be ended.. No matter how I feel about them. 9 years is a long time to be with someone. I would like to know your adviceon this! (plz dnt mind my grammer,i am from germany). I also know he doesn't like small idle talk, maybe that's an Aquarian male thing. Why don't u just say it..its just that ur emotionally immature..even detached from them..i mean all of us women are al.ike right? I ignored him and finally send him a long text telling him that I dont do games. I started a "friends with benefits" thing with a long time friend. 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